Just a little thought.. =)

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 Every day people learn something from their life... They might change or still be the same as who they are.. I wonder n keep reckon few thinks about what i see, feel, observe & experience...  People always say something that sometimes they don't even did, so are they consider as cheater? People always give advise to others to make others feel better but sometimes they also can't live with the advise they give others, so are they consider as bad person? People always pretend to smile to hide their problem, so are they being consider as happy-go-lucky person? People always cry whenever they face problems, so are they consider as weak person? People do give promise to others but when they can't keep the promise, are they being consider as a liar?


Different people may have different views about something, don't try to judge others by what we are or who we are... Try to know them and if you want to judge them, make sure you know them well before you do it... Apart from that, maybe each people may have a bestfriend or close friend but doesn't mean that you know everything about them... When something happen then you realize there are still a lot of things you don't even care to know about your bestfriend... 

Sometimes people do chit chatting, empty talk to just hv some fun but it's wrong to do that? Normal human being need some entertainment to cheer them up but not too much as we might get too excited then forget everything... When some people do something that they really like, some may judge them by saying they forget about what religion teach us to be.. Actually, the one who always judging may not understand what religion ask us to be.. Religion is our guidance, we are the one who have brain, mind & heart..We can think, read, write, speak & listen, so, we need to use all the senses well..

Sometimes I wonder how people can even say that others are hypocrite without realizing that they are once also a hypocrite too... I didn't say that i am good or what but still i am in the process of learning.. Sometimes we have to pretend because we don't want to hurt others but don't pretend too much in front of others when you keep on saying bad things about others.. What make you stop about saying bad to others is trying to avoid to be close with them..

People do try hard by doing good things and avoid bad things but then people keep on judging and may not accept once we are totally change.. People can say what ever they want, if it is good & useful for us to take it, don't ever hesitate to take it.. Take what ever good things that people said to make ourself look better.. If people say bad things about us, don't ever fight back in angry manner but prove, show them that we are not what like they think...

One more thing that i notice in this life is when a person is known as not really nice at first but actually they are good inside, people don't really notice how good they are from the inside.. Like a tiny little black dot on a piece of white paper, people always notice the black dot even it is just tiny.. This prove to us, once we did wrong people don't give us a chance to prove that they are wrong.. I don't make a general statement here but it do happened in our society...

For me, what ever it is, try to know ourselves first before judging others, try hard to live on the advise we give others because it is also will help us in future, we can pretend to be happy or nice to others because we don't want to hurt others' feeling but please not too much, if we want to say bad things about others remember that maybe there are 10 other people might say bad things about us, we can be too frank or outspoken but please make sure it is on the right time & place, we can hide truth from people know but we never can run away from Allah... What we do, what we hear, what we see & what we feel, Allah always knows & forever know... So think, act and reflect.. =)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

oh. i have to stop giving advise to people

lya89na said...

nope..don't stop..as i said, when we gv advise to others, we also need to try to live with those advise..who knows your advise may change others life..akan dpt balasan yg baik nnt.. InsyaAllah..

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